Monday, August 12, 2013

A Good Adventurous Reason for Matrimony

If I were asked the most agreeable thing in life, I should say it is the pleasure of contrast.  One cannot imagine anyone but an angel sitting with a harp in Paradise forever.  The ordinary human being needs a change.  This is the secret charm of the oasis, usually an indifferent patch of greenery made precious solely by surrounding sands.  The celebrated fountains of the world—Helicon, Bandusium, of the water of Salsabil which Solomon gave to the Queen of Sheeba—all spring in arid places.  The beauty of an Alpine dawn lies half in the sleeping world below.  A warm chair by the fire after a day with hounds, a shuttered room when the wind is tossing, belong to this category of pleasures.  The Greek shepherd knew the joy of the safe pinewood when storms tear the open sea; and a woman I know told me she had married her husband because what he said was always unexpected—a good adventurous reason for matrimony, I thought.

Quotation: The Southern Gates of Arabia. Freya Stark. 1936